The people complaining are not necessarily not good, but they are often unpopular.
People who complained thought they had experienced the greatest difficulties in the world. Those who forgot to hear him complained also experienced these things, but they felt different.
What is the complaint?
It burns a balloon like a cigarette, causing others to deflate.
There are several kinds of worthless acts in the world. For example, selling a boat in the desert, collecting fish bones, and then complaining.
Tolerantly speaking, complaining about human nature. "If you live in Chang'an, it's difficult to be big." Isn't it possible for others to talk about depression? However, the complaint is not desirable: you complain that it is equivalent to pour water into your own shoes, making it harder to move backwards. Difficulty is one thing, and complaining is another matter. Complainants think that they are strong, but society is too unfair. As said, the partnerships of people all over the world have undermined his success. This may reverse the cause and effect of things.
Complaining is different from admitting your failure. Those who dare to admit defeat will win the respect of others. It's like seeing a bruised, calm warrior like a hero. The complainant is a widower who has apparently failed but failed to admit defeat. People originally sympathetic to the weak, because of complaints of anger and impatience, but can not get the sympathy of others.
After the complainants complained, they were not only relaxed, but their feelings were often worse. The stones in their arms were not reduced but increased. As the saying goes, letting go is happiness, including putting down complaints because it is the most important thing in the heart and the most worthless thing.
The reason why people are enamored with those optimistic people is to cherish the detachment and weight they show. The confidence, courage, and beliefs that life requires are met by optimistic people. When they benefited, they infected others. People and optimism include open-mindedness, tenacity, and amicable people. It is never an obstacle to life but a foil to courage. With optimists, I am optimistic about myself.
Many people have complained about the vicissitudes of the situation and have groaned after discovering that nothing has happened. Complaints are equivalent to walking barefoot on the gravel road, and optimism is a pair of solid shoes.
It is not only courage to complain about losing, but also to lose friends. Everyone who fears and complains is full of fear that he is also infected. Without courage and friends, life becomes difficult. So people who complained continue to complain that they don’t know that there are many simple skills in life that can be saved, and shutting up is one of them.